Twitter Me This, Twitter Me That…

by Doug Cloud · 11 comments

TwitterpatedI started my design blog in May of 2007 with more than a little trepidation. Although I read other people's blogs regularly, both at home and at work, I was never interested in blogging myself. To be honest, I'm not a very sociable person, and the thought of coming up with a blog post on a daily basis was a bit too much. Heck, I feel put upon to speak more than ten words in a conversation. And grunts, nods, and waving my hands about wouldn't work too well on a blog (they don't usually work too well in conversations, either).

But then, that's the amazing thing about the Web; even a complete introvert such as myself can pass for a social mogul on the Internet.

When I came aboard the Big WWW back in 1998 and started attempting to cull this new field for clients I quickly realized the biggest selling feature is networking. This was a tad difficult for me because of my anti-social nature. Now you wouldn't think this would be a problem, considering the fact that on the internet one doesn't really have to go anywhere or meet anyone face-to-face.

Now spin the hands on the 'ol egg-timer ahead to 2007 and we now have what is termed the social network. Sites like Facebook, StumbleUpon, Technorati, Digg, and Twitter are all the rage. Just check out these Twitter stats. Everywhere I went people were talking about these new sites. And I kept seeing little signs on people's web pages - little social icons or text links (Follow Me On Twitter!).

Ok, so I'm always the last one to jump on the 'ol fad wagon, but after some time it started to make an impression on me, like a stone slowly sinking into thick mud.

Eventually I decided to take a small step forward. Signed up for a Twitter account. I was a bit nervous. I was reminded of something Bilbo said in The Fellowship of the Ring, "It's a dangerous business, Frodo, going out your front door. You step onto the road, and if you don't keep your feet, there's no knowing where you might be swept off to."

So it is. I got swept up. The funny part (as in funny-bad) is that Twitter, like so many other social applications, is too easy. Now I'm not knocking these applications, but keep in mind that the social Web is no substitute for actual personal interaction. I keep to myself. I'm pretty much a homebody. But don't emulate me or my lifestyle. Please. Going out your front door to interact with the rest of the world is a good thing. A healthy thing.

I've been a third-shifter most of my life, a contributing factor in my introversion. I like nights and the peace that comes from having no people around. For me this new social sensation on the Web has provided me with a life, of sorts. At the very least it has opened up an avenue to improve my communication skills, which is the first step towards any meaningful social interaction. Grunts and waving my hands aside.

So what about you? Did you vote in this blog's Twitter poll? Have you stepped out your front door into the new social Web?  If so what benefits have you personally experienced? Has it helped your business or enterprise in any way?

Oh, and if you want, you can "Follow Me On Twitter!"

I promise not to grunt.

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About Writer [Blogging With Success]About Author Guest Author: Doug Cloud is a professional graphic artist from Michigan who specializes in illustration, character design, and branding. When he isn't creating characters he's busy being one. For quotes on professional design work visit DougDraws.

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SBA March 19, 2010 at 6:47 AM

I’ve been slow to use Twitter — my favorite network is StumbleUpon since there are so many ways to get at good articles, unwind with fun puzzles and tind new blogs. I keep my twittering within a small circle otherwise you get flooded with tweets from a few hyper birds. Thanks for sharing. I ran a Twanalyis on your tweets which reveals your style is chatty, so I guess it works!

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Doug C. March 19, 2010 at 9:48 AM

I got tired of SU not long after I started the “social media” journey. To me it’s just a fad site, like Digg, Facebook, and Technorati. Too much going on and too much clutter. I use Twitter mainly to promote my own stuff and interact with just a few key people. I have a new year’s resolution I did concerning my Twitter account which you can read about here. Now I only follow and interact with people who do likewise with me.

They have so many amazing “Twitter” gadgets, don’t they? I like Wordle and the Twitter List Converter .

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Cheryl B March 21, 2010 at 12:50 AM

As an introvert myself, I really identified with this article, Doug. It encourages me to use Twitter better. I actually find personal interaction easier, though, because it gives you a better perception of others’ reactions to your conversations.

I also get overwhelmed with the variety of means we have for social interaction on the ‘net. Maybe the key is not to agonize over the best means of marketing ourselves, but to choose the one or two that appeal to us most and to use them well and — most important — consistently.

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Doug C. March 21, 2010 at 1:57 AM

Hi Cheryl. Nice to hear from another introvert :)

Personal interaction if fine with me as long as it’s just one person. Any more than that and I start to develop this twitch…(see, it’s happening as I write this). I agree about choosing just the ones we feel comfortable with, but for me Twitter is the only online social tool I use. It’s enough just trying to come up with something to say in 140-characters-or-less let alone make it useful or pertinent.

A PR person I am not so when it comes to advertising myself and what I do I usually bug SBA for ideas (lol). I’m sure she’s getting tired of me by now.

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timethief March 21, 2010 at 6:56 AM

Hello Doug,
I strongly identified with your post because I am also an introvert and have blogged on being one in “All Loners Aren’t Social Misfits”.

Some people are great at small talk and some are capable of communicating something of value in 140 characters. I’m not good at either and I’m not sweating it.
I’m no longer tempted to become deeply involved in the social networking circuit again. In December I decided to pull way back.

I use twitter to post the titles and short link to my latest post. I tend to retweet more than I tweet. Like you I communicate with a few key people, and it will be my pleasure to follow you.

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Doug C. March 21, 2010 at 8:56 PM

Hi T.

More introverts. I like it. Maybe we should start a club. Thanks for the comment and the follow. I don’t worry about too many things these days, either. There was a time when I used to worry about everything, but not anymore. Nowadays my policy is “don’t sweat the small stuff”. There’s enough issues in life without having to make mountains out of anthills.

I looked for that article on your blog and couldn’t find it. I”d be interested in reading it. Have a link?

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timethief March 23, 2010 at 2:55 AM

Hi Doug,
The reason you did not find it is because it’s in my personal blog here http://thistimethisspace.com/2007/08/08/all-loners-arent-social-misfits/

Also starting a club for introverts sounds like an interesting proposition. Would all members agree not to communicate unless or until they feel they have something of value to share? If so, then count me in. If no,t then I cannot be relied upon to be chatty and “personal” online.

Offline and online I am genuinely the kind of woman who is a hard close to. But when I am in the company of those who are close to me I am affectionate, fun loving and supportive. I take note of body language, facial expressions and gestures and as I’m the animated type myself it’s not difficult for others to determine what I am thinking in face-to-face conversations.

I do not derive an income from bogging and choosing to blog means I’m choosing to spend less times with friends and family. As I have twice escaped death I’m keenly aware that’s it’s those face-to-face relationships that are the most important ones of all. I’m not strongly inclined to increase my email load by exchanging personal information and confidences with people I’ll never actually meet. It’s okay with me if we remain acquaintances who dialog only in comment boxes on posts.

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Doug C. March 23, 2010 at 4:12 AM

This phrase rang true for me, “While a few studies have shown a correlation between creativity, originality, and introversion, perhaps more striking is the greater enjoyment introverts seem to reap from creative endeavors.”

I know that the majority of truly creative people are solicitous. When I say ‘truly creative’ I mean people who were born with creative talents that they themselves did nothing to acquire. The innately creative are more prone to introversion – not by choice, per se, but by their very nature. There are of course people who will disagree with this, but then they probably smile all the time and take loads of prescription drugs.

I enjoy the creativity that God bestowed upon me and I find that being alone helps to nurture my creative endeavors. Another quote from your article also reverberated with me, “Amanda Guyer, a psychologist at the National Institutes of Health in Bethesda, Maryland, has found that socially withdrawn people have increased sensitivity to all kinds of emotional interactions and sensory cues, which may mean that they find pleasure where others do not.”

I can vouch for this myself. I find pleasure in the most simple and mundane of moments: watching the shadows of leaves on my curtains, listening to the rustle of leaves across the pavement, the day as it just begins to dawn. I do not think these spectacular things would even be noticed by some busy jabbering extrovert.

So in then end i am thankful to God for making me the way I am, because I have been given the gift of solitude and it is in the quite gaps between waking up and going to sleep that I have witnessed small glimpses of the beauty that is life.

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timethief March 23, 2010 at 4:20 AM

I’m glad you found value in the article.

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Corve April 11, 2010 at 6:32 AM

I would say I am slow to social media. I am still not on Facebook. But hey, I am on Twitter. It took me a while to get used to it but I am now hooked. I even say good morning and good nights lol

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